It is so easy to want change and to complain about the things we dislike to those around us, giving in to the gossip.

Unfortunately, this does nothing to help you, it actually just ensures you will continue to cast negativity to the situation and continue to feel the way you are. Instead, reassess, decide whether it is something you can control, or if it is something out of your control. If it is within your control, think, “what good does this bring into my life?” Then be grateful for it and remind yourself when you wake up daily. If you cannot think of anything then rid yourself of it, let go, move on. Sayonara!

If it’s out of your control, then, well, there is no sense of adding negativity to your life for something that is out of your hands. Go with the flow, be mindful that there is a lesson the universe is trying to teach you and better is on its way. Although it may not always feel that way, it is.

There is a reason for everything although we may not understand it right then and there, we will in time.